It is so sad to realize that someone who was deeply trusted has talked about another person expected to be the ally, not a source of criticism. Unsolicited comments, at times, maybe a form of love, even though they cause deep pain. However, if they are not directly spoken to the concerned person, they may become gossip — an act of hatred or jealousy. And to accuse others of stealing their joys is not acceptable. No one can say that a certain joy is deserved by someone else.
When one is blinded by blocking others just to reach high, it is no longer healthy competition. True success does not come from believing oneself to be superior to others It is vital to remember that all have different talents, and anyone can learn what others think they solely possess.
When one is blinded by evaluating constantly others’ performance without evaluating themselves, it only leads to chaos. The tendency to rate others’ performance using a standard they believe to be the only right is crazy. And failing to apply it to themselves is even more absurd.
When one is blinded by fighting relentlessly for what they believe is right even if it is clear that they are wrong, people will slowly get tired of their fights. It is unfortunate to know that others fear them because they make the lives of others hell when they do not share their thoughts.
When one is blinded by following others, even when it is wrong, just to please them, they become nothing more than a puppet – fake and untrustworthy. People cannot rely on them, as they are willing to sacrifice others for their own benefit.
When one is blinded that they are the only one favored by God, this is delusional. It is not only how many times one worships God every day or read the bible that matters most but for me, it is how one treats others that pleases God most.
Enough of this self-righteousness, injustice, and love of fame. One may always win the battle through overpowering, manipulating, or sabotaging – but everything has its end.
Sad, but in time, friends may leave, and everything may fall apart.
So, loosen up. Do not expect your standards to always be the benchmark for everyone.
I beg you please, you are not God.