One of the seemingly amazing natural instincts that women possess is called “gut feel.” Trust me when I say that when a woman has an inkling or hunch, it is almost 100% accurate.
I can tell because it already happened to me, and this is my advice to all women out there as soon as you natural instinct kicks in, trust on it and don’t let it hold you back.
Aside from the power interruption at 2 am this morning, what kept awake is the buzz that exploded on social media regarding the revelations of Anthony Jennings’ ex-girlfriend Jam Villanueva. Aside from the screenshots confirming what I suspected to be the true reason behind Maris Racal and Rico Blanco’s split, it was the shocking details of the alleged sexual and illicit affairs that the Anthony and Maris have committed beyond their on-screen set-up.
Jam wrote that she has been trying to understand the situation despite the red flags that she has been seeing, and she said she ignored her gut feel
telling her that something is certainly not right. While she held on to their relationship with Anthony for so ling because she truly loved him, she finally had the strength to say goodbye after reading the sexual conversations between Anthony and Maris.
When trust is broken, it is hard to bring it back. It is quite impossible to regain it to the same level because this sad episodes will always haunt the relationship. As a mature and grown woman that I think I have become, I want to encourage younger ladies and women out there to never lose your value as a person and though it is difficult to let go, the strength in walking away from such a traumatic experience will give us the motivation and power to stand up for ourselves.
Finally, if you can protect your relationship when you feel something is going on, then by all means do it as early as you can. In the case of Jam, she did but sadly Anthony was not worth it because he was tempted and seduced by another woman. Once a man is overtaken by this common weakness, then he is not worth fighting for.
